When Love Hurt YOU Don't Give Up On Love.

When love hurt you don't give up on love.
Yes getting hurt carries unfathomable emotions, however do not allow it to make you bitter or give up on love.

Note: Love did not Hurt you; The person you Loved Hurt YOU.

Giving up on love is the most ridiculous thing that I've ever said and what I've heard from others who experienced heart break. I use to recite the phrases "I'm done with love; Love sucks, Love Hurts and Love is cruel." It looks/sounds stupid right?
Why do we place the blame on LOVE? Love did not hurt us. Love is beautiful, happiness, a blessing and the most awesome emotion to have.
Instead of placing the emphasis on love we should place the horrid feeling of getting hurt on the person who we trusted with our love. The person we entrusted with our love is of discussion when it involves heartbreak. Love plays NO prevalence when it comes to heartbreak.

Give up on entrusting your heart with people who don't deserve your love. 
Give up on expecting others to love you because you lack fulfilling love for self.
Give up on expecting others to love the way that you do. Everyone's perception on love differs, find love that compares to your definition of what love is.
Give up on forcing love upon others or forcing others to love you.

Love does not hurt. Love did not leave you. Love did not cheat on you. Love did not disrespect you. Love did not betray you,
The person that you loved hurt you, left you, cheated on you, disrespected you and betrayed you. 
Do not become bitter and harbor hate for love. The horrible actions from the person/persons that you entrusted with your love should not defy how you should love others or have any power over you. When you submit to bitterness is takes over you in a powerless way. It will make you cold, unwelcoming and it will create a negative aura that isn't becoming of you.

P.H.A.T. Women Logic:

Instead of holding contempt or bitterness, be careful with who you entrust with your love. 
It's okay to have your guards on active duty but not to the extent of pushing everyone away or being someone who isn't pleasant to approach. The horrible relationships and betrayal from others should not be forgotten but should be used as teaching elements of what not to accept.

Most importantly Loving yourself will prevent you from accepting anything/anyone who doesn't deserve you or your love. 
Be Open, Wise, Careful & Patient.

Reminder:Love does NOT Hurt; The Person you loved Hurt YOU.
-Be Encouraged!

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