When She's NOT Daddy's Little Girl...

When She's Not Daddy's Little Girl...

Daddy am I pretty? Do you love me? Daddy are you proud of me? Daddy do you see me? Daddy I’m here, do I matter to you?  Daddy.. Daddy.. Daddy…….

  

 Little girls need Daddy’s love too. 
When Daddy’s here but Not here. 

Begging for the love, affection and attention from a man who should love her unconditionally.

The first man who she should hear the words I love you, I’m proud of you and you are beautiful. The man who should offer her love, support and security. A child should never have to beg for their parents love. A little girl should never beg for the love of the first man she sees as her hero.

When she’s not daddy’s little princess, When she’s not the light in daddy’s eyes, When she’s desperately seeking to be acknowledge from the first man she fell in love with (Dad) and he turns his back on her she tends to search for the love, support & attention from others. She tend to place her value, worth and love for self in shaky hands. 
Shaky hands that can’t offer her what she so seek, Shaky hands that will see her neediness as unattractive, Shaky hands that will take advantages of her broken heart.

#Pluspiration by KDH...

Dear BabyGirl…

True… A little girl should never have to seek love from the man whom should love her the most.

I get it, he broke your heart, he did not acknowledge you, he did not protect you or support you. 
You begged for Daddy's love, affection, comfort and protection but you didn’t receive an ounce of it. 
You then retreated to questioning your own value and worth and began to consider yourself as a less than. 
If daddy don’t love me than why should any other man…

Some little girls grow up to beg for the love, affection & attention from those who don’t value them. 

Other's don't understand your constant need to hold onto those (lovers) that don't deserve you by questioning why are you holding onto this man who continues to cheat on you, betray you, manipulates you, verbally/physically abuses you…WHY?... 
It could be because of your continuous pattern of seeking, chasing and searching for love, affection and attention from men that continues to break your heart.

....BabyGirl, yes it hurts, it’s not fair and yes you do deserve better…

The love, attention, affection and security that you should seek has been in front of you the whole time…the unconditional, unquestionable and undeniable love from the Most High. 
You have a Father, a heavenly Father that loves you unconditionally.
When you place your heart in his hands you will see the value, worth and love that becomes of you. 
No need to search, chase or damage yourself to receive the Most High love. Run after him, pour your heart out to him and fully allow yourself to open your heart to him…He has been chasing you, seeking you to accept his love. Place your broken heart in his hands and then you shall began to see how valuable you truly are.

All Love…

Karen D. Harbin

P.S… After a moment of self-reflecting, this topic has been weighing on my heart, as well as on the hearts of many other’s.

  

Don't be Optional...Teaching ppl How to treat you pt.1

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Don't be Optional...Teaching people how to treat you...

Hi Beauties... In a recent conversation with a few acquaintances, the topic of discussion was how people think it's OK to treat you as they see fit.
My response to people treating you how they see fit is accurate; people will treat you how you represent yourself. If you present yourself in a way that displays a step on, ole reliable being or irrelevant that is how people will treat you or shall I say that is how toxic people will treat you.
Again I say CONFIDENCE is a repellent against all things that are toxic. When people see your confidence they will treat you as such.

Those that are threaten by your confidence will usually dismiss themselves from your presence.

In my YouTube video I discussed how lover's treat you as an option or a person of convenience when they see fit. I suggest dismissing yourselves from people that treat you as if you are something that they can pick up, play with and put back on the shelf to collect dust, then leave you in the position of thinking that something is wrong with you.
I say don't ever put the blame on you or question your worth from how a toxic person treat you and misuses you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with , STOP throwing pity parties questioning your worth or relevance to an undeserving person that doesn't deserve to be in your presence.
Ladies you have to start setting boundaries and letting people know what you will tolerate and what you will not tolerate and if those people decide that they don't want to abide by your simple boundaries dismiss yourself from the equation or better yet allow them to dismiss themselves, cause trust me they will. Don't chase after anyone who treats you as an option. Trust me...I been there and done this....
Some people like you to chase them because they need you to fulfill their ego. I'm not in the business of swelling someones ego at the cost of my value & worth.

Ladies present yourself with confidence and don't be afraid to walk away from anyone that treat you optional. Again..People will treat you according to how you present yourself.

GoodNight Lovelies!
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