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Don't be Optional...Teaching people how to treat you...
Hi Beauties... In a recent conversation with a few acquaintances, the topic of discussion was how people think it's OK to treat you as they see fit.
My response to people treating you how they see fit is accurate; people will treat you how you represent yourself. If you present yourself in a way that displays a step on, ole reliable being or irrelevant that is how people will treat you or shall I say that is how toxic people will treat you.
Again I say CONFIDENCE is a repellent against all things that are toxic. When people see your confidence they will treat you as such.
Those that are threaten by your confidence will usually dismiss themselves from your presence.
In my YouTube video I discussed how lover's treat you as an option or a person of convenience when they see fit. I suggest dismissing yourselves from people that treat you as if you are something that they can pick up, play with and put back on the shelf to collect dust, then leave you in the position of thinking that something is wrong with you.
I say don't ever put the blame on you or question your worth from how a toxic person treat you and misuses you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with , STOP throwing pity parties questioning your worth or relevance to an undeserving person that doesn't deserve to be in your presence.
Ladies you have to start setting boundaries and letting people know what you will tolerate and what you will not tolerate and if those people decide that they don't want to abide by your simple boundaries dismiss yourself from the equation or better yet allow them to dismiss themselves, cause trust me they will. Don't chase after anyone who treats you as an option. Trust me...I been there and done this....
Some people like you to chase them because they need you to fulfill their ego. I'm not in the business of swelling someones ego at the cost of my value & worth.
Ladies present yourself with confidence and don't be afraid to walk away from anyone that treat you optional. Again..People will treat you according to how you present yourself.
GoodNight Lovelies!
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