Crumbled Pages (Open Memoir) Excerpt From My Book http://www.karendharbin.com/products.html ... BabyGirl you left your book wide open AGAIN. The crumbled and worn pages of your heart is on display for all to see. Beware of the Storyteller, he's toxic and preys on the weak, lost & confused. He will tell fictional tales of false hopes, dreams & fantasies to get what he so desire and leave you with torn pages.
Hello Beauties...
I wanted to shed some light on how women expose themselves prematurely to those who haven't proven themselves worthy to read their personal chapters. Often times we let our guards down to soon and end up falling victim to a toxic being who has portrayed themselves as genuine.
When you prematurely disclose the chapters of you to a toxic being they will use that data and store it in their files to take advantage of you.
Toxic people seek lost, weak and confused individuals, because, those are the type of people who are searching for someone, something or anything to fulfill what they lack giving to themselves; could be love, feeling completed or to feel like they belong.
Toxic people know exactly how to win over the heart of an unsuspecting individual who lacks self worth...Even the women who portray a strong demeanor can fall victim to a toxic person if their vulnerable.
Excerpt From Phase 6- Open Memoir:
In the process of meeting a person who meets your qualifications and standards do not reveal your insecurities or make yourself an open book during the meet and greet phase…
Toxic
lovers will see this as an opportunity to destroy you by delivering the words
that you want to hear and I refer to this as selling hopes, dreams and
fantasies. Toxic people will make you feel that you are the most important
person in the world to get what they want.
Toxic lovers will create any characteristic that you are likely to gravitate to; by
revealing yourself as a open memoir this will give a person knowledge of how to
approach you. When you prematurely open yourself up to a possible toxic love
interest they will be the character that you wished to have just to get what
they truly want.
Toxic
people seek out women who have a low self concept and devise a plan to make them
believe that he is their knight and shining armor. Toxic people want to get into
your head and make you believe that they genuinely have your best interests and
this is purely a ploy to get you to do whatever they want.
Ladies
you want to be in the position to read their memoir so remember to humble
yourself, silence yourself and allow your potential love interest to open up
and reveal their memoir to you. Ask the following questions: what defies you as
a man/woman? What are your personal achievements? Go deeper by asking who are
you without your materialistic possessions? This is one of my favorite
questions because it will give you a more in depth perceptive of which they
truly are. Stated in previous chapter: If a person describes their
accomplishments solely on material possessions they have acquired and not
accomplishments based on academics, career or personal achievements than this
person is neither mature or the right person for you…WHY??? Because this is the
definition of a person who defy their worth on materialistic objects and this
describes a self absorbed person that has not grown into maturity.
You
want a man to prove himself to you so that you can get a clear picture as to
whether or not you want to continue your involvement with this person.
#PluspirationByKDH:
Ladies I've been down the rode of falling victim of opening the pages of me several times. Trail & Error. You want so badly to open your heart to someone who you feel is the one but think about this What exactly has this person proven to you for you to think that they are deserving to read the personal pages of you? Could it be because you are looking for someone to rescue you from loneliness, a lack of love or could it be out of desperation. I suggest self reflecting in a diary/journal to find self acceptance. Keep your eyes and ears open and silence yourself.
Have a good day Beauties!
