The Beauty of P.H.A.T. Confidence

P.H.A.T. Confidence defines having pride in oneself, being happy in the skin that you're in, astonishing others with your assertiveness & representing your self in a tasteful refined confident manner. 

P: Prideful is to have a high opinion of oneself & possess self respect. One who believes and knows they're relevant. One who accepts self as is.
H: Happy is the definition of being joyous and pleased. Holding a joyful inner being represents the ability of being pleased and content with oneself in which commands a happy heart.
A: Astonishing represents that you are astounding in your own right. Your pure bliss surprises others. Yes you are of plus size and yes you continue to surprise those who believe that all plus sized individuals are depressed, lonely and unhappy with your blissfulness.
T: Tasteful is having the ability to express your beauty in a refined way. You are a lady who represents herself in a refine, elegant and classy manner. 

P.H.A.T. Women Logic:

P.H.A.T. Confidence describes loving the woman that you are in the skin that you reside in. When you love you from the inside out the confidence that you have will reveal itself in the way that you carry yourself, the way that you speak, the attire that you wear, your full representation of you will demand respect. 

P.H.A.T. Confidence heightens your self concept, the concept that was previously broken is now renewed. Society negative views and the toxic views from people who are in your daily surroundings has NO significance in your life because no one opinion dictate who you are; you know who you are and most importantly you accept who you are. P.H.A.T. women recognizes, acknowledges and accepts who she is in her current dress size, and she defy who she is because no person, place or thing has the power to defy her worth.

Confidence is a repellent against all things that are toxic. 

Use confidence as your weapon against a society who treated 

you like a 2nd hand citizen because you are in plump skin, use it to keep toxic people at bay. Wear your confidence, live in your confidence, own your confidence and speak with confidence and others will have no choice but to respect your confidence. 

In Phase-1 "Recognition & Acceptance" in my book http://outskirtspress.com/fatgirlssyndrome The Fat Girls Syndrome vs. P.H.A.T. Women Mentality; I revealed to my readers that the first way to rebuild your self concept is by recognizing and accepting that you are suffering from a low self concept because when you acknowledge that you are suffering from a low self concept you will then begin to make changes toward revamping a broken self concept.

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